Ex-Girlfriend reports Penectomy Results

My ex-boyfriend lost his penis due to an motorcycle accident. Read 
here how he was modified.

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Hi, I am Susan and would like to write something about my 
ex-boyfriend Werner.

He is now 23 years old, 185 cm, black hair, slim. He is studying 
civil engineering. He has lost his penis at an accident with his 
motorcycle 4 years ago. The accident happened in summer. He weared a 
pair of short slags only, no safety dress, when he made a short ride 
with the motorbike in our village. A car hit him and he came below 
the bike. His lower body got contact with the chain and foot rests. 
 Additional to the direct injury there occured an infection one day 
later because of dirt.  That time he got seriously injured and 
survived only due to good medical help in a nearby hospital. The 
penis could not be rescued however. The shaft with all erectile 
tissue had to be amputated due to the infection and strong damage. 
It has been removed completely. No erectile tissue is left. The 
urethral opening was relocated between scrotum and anus. Only a 
short piece of the urethra could be saved by the doctors due to 
strong damage during accident. Also the bladder had been injured. 
The closing muscle does no longer work well. So he has to go to 
bathroom often times. All wounds have healed so far. The testicles 
are working as hormone producers, so that he has not to take 
hormones externally. His sexual drive has decreased strongly however 
after the accident. Erections are no longer possible for him. Soft 
massage of his balls etc. is a nice experience for him.  First time 
in hospital he had a catheter after the surgeries. But after one 
week he had to lern to use the new pee hole. In the beginning it was 
very painfull for him because of wounds. It was difficult to do the 
job without too much spray. Nowadays he can handle it quite good. 
Due to the very back location of the opening he has to remove his 
trousers for urinating. He has to sit down for this business of 
course. Only this way he can pee without spray. He can use the men's 
urinal toilet with special pose only. Practically he uses the 
sitting toilet (positive! clean bathroom now). Because of strongly 
reduced capacity of his bladder he has to pee quite often since the 
accident.
For him the accident was a big change of life as it was for me. 
Before that he had been never thinking about such a handicap.

There are so many problems physically and mental for him. He was 
only 18 yrs old when it happened. At that time he was living 
together with me. I tried to give him good support already in 
hospital and later at home. But after 6 months we seperated.   He 
had several injuries, also broken legs. "Downstairs" some organs had 
been badly hurt. Testicles (contusion), urethra (rupture, 
shortened), bladder (rupture) and prostate (removed) got much 
damage. Errections are no longer possible, there is nothing left to 
grow and get hard.  Generally his sex drive has reduced much. He has 
no more ejaculations. Only from time to time, mostly at night, some 
liquid is coming out of his pee hole. 

Our sex life after the accident:
He has licked me with his soft tongue to several orgasms. Also with 
his fingers he stimulated my vagina. But I never could give him back 
some satisfaction. Like a machine he tried to make me feel good, but 
actually it was no pleasure for him. I tried to softly kneat his 
balls to make him come. But his body did not respond. Also he became 
very unselfconcious and shy. Before his accident I liked his macho 
style behaviour. Nowadays he acts like  a slave with no stamina. 
After several weeks I decided to leave him and I met a real man 
again.